I have not personaly done a lot of picking up womenper se.It is not my game.I like the cold approach used on hitting on girls but not to the point that i will be picking them up.But i do read preferences on this subject.And what i have learned so far is that guys who regularly picks up women had more adrenaline rush as compared to the usual “meeting a girl” kind of thing.They uses very specific approach,hand and body gestures just to have their message across.They play subtle but firm at the same time.The manner are decisive and results oriented.