Loosing out in an intimate relationship can be a big blow to you. Not every body can come out of it easily and carry on with the life as if nothing has happened.There are very few who are able to do so. We tend to be heartbroken and listless. Nothing seems to be right. You keep going back down memory lane, trying to figure out, what went wrong. If after all this introspection you feel that ‘HE ‘ is the man for you, go woo him back. You are the best judge as how to win him back. Moping around the house will not help. And taking the proper action is exactly what I did in learning how to win back my ex .