When you Plump Your Lips and effectively entice a man to kiss you, you are broadcasting your attractiveness as a mate. You are saying that you are a sensual creature who is worth his interest and he should come to you and kiss you. Kissing is, contrary to what some women think, highly arousing to males, and the reason it may not see so is because it is so arousing that it causes the transfer of interests from kissing to other more advanced stages of response along these lines, if you catch my drift. Perhaps the fastest way to turn me on, is to kiss me the right way.