The art of persuasion goes much deeper than just giving someone what they want. To use persuasion tactics effectively you have to make them believe you actually wanted them to win, or they have to feel like they won without affecting you negatively. A girlfriend who knows how to persuade her husband to do something doesn’t make him feel guilty because that will just backfire later, she uses kindness and sneaky tactics with flirting. Persuasion can be a tricky animal but learning it is as simple as learning the 10 basic human needs and appealing to at least 3 of them. It doesn’t matter which three.