I was making a grilled cheese sandwich on Tuesday afternoon when I got an instant message on my cell-phone. I could tell it was an instant message because of a special ring tone I had installed to let me know about instant messages. The message came from my friend Paul who was letting me know that he would be over later to go swimming. My friend Paul works as a wedding photojournalist and is becoming well known throughout Orange County. He recently put up a website detailing his services. On occasion I will go with him to weddings and help him out.